Last Conversation

Faith, Hope and Love but of these three the greatest is love.

In my previous blog I mentioned loosing my favorite resident- 100 year old woman who left an extraordinary legacy behind for her loved ones. My last conversation with her occurred the day before she died. She was sitting in the dining room waiting for lunch to be served and went up to her to make sure that she had everything that she needed. She said," You realize that I have a birthday coming up, I'll be over 100 years old." Her birthday wasn't actually for another few months but I smiled and replied, "What is your secret to living a long life?"

She looked up at me and smiled," Love. To live a long life your life must be filled with love. You must first learn to love yourself for who you are and who you want to become. Find a spouse that you love unconditionally that loves you that way in return, because no matter what happens through the bad times love is what gets you through. And then you have a family and you raise them with love and happy memories, so that all the good things that come from lots of love in your life fill your mind, heart and soul. That's my secret!"

We continued talking and she kept stressing that point to me over and over again- love is the greatest asset that anyone can obtain in their lifetime. So if you are looking for the secret to living a long healthy life, follow her generous wisdom and fill your life with love.

100 Years

So I owe you a blog from last week, to say the least last week was a hard one. It started with one of the girls in my department quiting because we couldn't work around her schedule so she found a better job. Which means that I will be working every other weekend and will no longer have a life.
However, the real hardship was loosing my favorite resident. She was 100 years old and I know that you are probably wondering how much longer I expected her to live. I think if you knew her you would understand. She was a fighter- her parents died when she was young, became a mother of four sons, lost her husband at the age of fifty and lived the rest of her life as a widow. She christened a navy ship in his honor, raised three sons who followed in their fathers footsteps to become admirals. In essence she was a fighter.
When I was helping her family pack up her room and listening to all of the stories I became sad because I realized that I only knew a small portion of who she really was. I became aware of how many stories I had missed. A few days later I read her obituary which was a tribute to her entire life and I realized how many great things she did in her life, what a great legacy that she left behind. In 100 years there were extraordinary things that she accomplished, it made her look like superwoman!
It made me think of what sort of legacy I want to leave behind for my loved ones. If I live to be 100 what great stories would I want to be told about my life- my career, friends, and especially my family.

Survey Window

As you may realize since I work in a long term care facility, it is evaluated each year for an annual inspection by DHEC. The facility is now in the window for visitation from this organization and chaos has entered the building wildly. Each day there is a new task on the agenda to improve the facility in some small way that will help with the survey. Each department has been assigned tasks during the survey, and all have received educational material to review based on information that we should all know about the facility.
Overall this process is somewhat overwhelming, and adds a lot of stress to the daily work routine. I must say that I will be relieved once the visitation is complete and we have another year before the survey team visits again. I will keep you posted- hopefully the results will be great.

Coffee Addiction updates: In the past week I only stopped for two ice Carmel latte lights on the way to work. This is a large improvement!!

Only Time Will Tell

This week a position opened up within the company that I work for. It is a full time, salary based position that I know would allow me to use the skills and knowledge that I possess on a higher level. I approached the director of Human Resources about the position opening and requested that I be considered for the position and I added my experience and knowledge about the position and my readiness and eagerness to learn more about the company. The decision has not been announced so only time will tell. I am keeping my fingers crossed that if not for this position maybe another that will arise in the near future.

Coffee addiction update: In the past week I have consumed three cups of Dunkin Donuts coffee and one of Starbucks. I am hoping that is a slight improvement!

Coffee Addiction

Recently I noticed how often I go to Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts for coffee I must admit that I was pretty surprised. One week in particular I bought 8 coffees. That's more than one a day, I am starting to believe that I am mildly addicted to this liquid substance.
Since this discovery I have tried to limit my purchases down to less than 4 per week, but I am seeing a change in my behavior. I am slightly moodier in the mornings without coffee, tired a lot, and I crave even the scent of coffee beans. One could blame those symptoms on having a bad week, or getting sick but its really all about the coffee.
My favorite obsession is an iced Carmel latte with skim milk and two splenda. Its gotten to the point where some of the morning shift recognizes my car and knows my name. So this week I have started to ween myself off of the substance. I will keep you posted on the process, it should be interesting!